hood goddess

hodd goodess

At Least I’m Not Black

This is how non-black women reassure themselves.
They think “It’s hard being a woman, but it could be worse.”

the black woman is the most unprotected, unloved woman on earth…she is the only flower on earth…that grows unwatered.

—kola boof, egyptian-sudanese-american novelist and poet   (via shaelii)

(Source: chelebelleslair, via yourroyalqueerness)

I’m trying not to edit myself while I’m writing and just let everything flow out
And be terrible and clean it up later, maybe.
It’s hard
I’m ashtrays thinking of there didn’t ways to say something and I try to remember the best, most beautiful one
I’m trying to find the realest one

My Choice Not To Choose

It’s late and this is going to be a little rough. Bear with me.

Pressuring me to “choose” whether I like men or women more is the most unnatural request one could have of me.

It’s asking me to decide who I’m attracted to, who I fall for, who I find beautiful. It’s purposely asking me to erase my chances to have experiences with all kinds of people. 

It’s corroding me.

Straight and gay people alike move mountains explaining that they don’t choose who they love, then turn around and demand that I do just that.

I won’t. And I have questions.

Why, no really, why is my being bisexual such a dealbreaker? It sounds to me like it means I have a 100% chance of being attracted to you, just because you are a person. And if I don’t think you’re cute or if I think you’re an asshole, at least you know it’s not because of your gender.

When someone says they’re bisexual, why do you hear half straight/half gay instead of always bisexual, all the time? It’s not one minute I’m gay, and then the next I’m straight. My attractions coalesce constantly. 

What is with this fatalistic approach to bisexuality, meaning whoever we “end up with” is what we are now, instead of just letting them be the person who treats me the best, or the people who make me the happiest? Bisexuality doesn’t end. In fact, no sexualities do. 

Why are bisexual men labeled as being “actually gay” and bisexual women as being “curious, but straight”? (And why are men the default in both equations?)

I’m tired.

Literally I’m going to sleep, I’m wracking my brain trying to verbalize my feelings.

I’m still no choosing though.

Coming up next: I’m a Bisexual Femme and It Doesn’t Fucking Mean I’m Really Just Straight

thanoblesavage:

Everybody eating but us.
But at the rate we’re waking up to the importance of group economics we are destined to return to greatness.

thanoblesavage:

Everybody eating but us.

But at the rate we’re waking up to the importance of group economics we are destined to return to greatness.

The Internet

—Dontcha

eyenoyuwantmoore:

Syd’s voice is beyond soothing

The song I can dance with you lightheardedly to while being dead ass serious

(via neirenelafemme)

Anonymous asked: Top 5 aesthetics

whitegirlsaintshit:

whitegirlsaintshit:

battleslut galactica

weird slut

instahoney entrepreneur 

post-apocalyptic pussy 

glowy goddess!!!

i made up like two to three of these terms, but y’all know what i mean off top. (battleslutgalactica is my trademark too)

lmao we call that spaceThot

Now What?

Like what is wrong with people out here

One guy I just met asked if I could send him an ass picture

The other guy I just met asked me to come over at 1am one night

Both through texts

Like what do I look like?

I don’t feel like it’s self-disrespectful to send someone ass shots or go over their house at 1am. But I feel like they both came from a disrespectful place with their requests you feel me?

miraclewhip:

MIRACLE WHIP, KALE & APPLE POTATO SALAD

PREP TIME: 20 min. | TOTAL TIME: 4 hr. 20 min.

MAKES: 10 servings, 1/2 cup each

WHAT YOU NEED

3/4 cup MIRACLE WHIP Dressing

1 tbsp. GREY POUPON Dijon Mustard

2 tsp. cider vinegar

2 lb. new red potatoes, quartered, cooked and cooled

4 cups coarsely chopped kale

2 apples, chopped

1/2 cup thinly sliced red onions

MAKE IT

MIX dressing, mustard and vinegar until blended.

COMBINE remaining ingredients in large bowl. Add dressing mixture; mix lightly.

REFRIGERATE several hours or until chilled.

VARIATION

Add 6 slices cooked OSCAR MAYER Bacon, coarsely chopped, to chill salad just before serving.

What the fuck is this why is imitation mayo advertising on tumblr like do you know your audience or nah

vinebox:

 Bold white girls be like

WHy he gotta use my name though because he know I’d be the one to beat her ass

(via charlibaltimore)